lists

  • my pillars

    The opposite of addiction is connection (Johann Hari) Hierarchy of needs: Physiological > Safety > Love and Belonging > Esteem > Self-Actualization (Maslow) You can do everything, just not at the same time (MAL) Positive attitude = positive outcome (CF) You do the best you can with what you have (TO) Personal gain is at…

  • Where I put the things on my mind for safekeeping

    As the title says, below is a list of the things bouncing around in my head that I desperately need to get out so that I can leave the office / get on with my day (regularly updated, so if you are part of the small club of people who wishes they could read minds…

  • Things people have said that make me đź‘ą

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    Men I’ve dated: “It just has felt like teeth pulling to make this fun” “If I can tell you to do one thing, it’s to workout” My therapist: “How are you feeling?” “Something about have I ever longed for x” “So you were kind of like [person]’s guide dog” The public “Oh that’s amazing you…

  • What’s cooking?

    Here’s a list of what is, in fact, cooking: – Who is she? lover of lists, people, the smell of gasoline, freshly cut wood and grass and more – Sonder, and why it’s been my favorite word since I was 12 – love letters to my friends – te quiero vs. the l-word vs. te…